basics
- (poin)dexter, starman, stardust, solanum, zephyr, flutters, or whoever is in my icon (current: sunburst and floofty)
- 23 (july 11 2001)
- psych major + assistant teacher
- white + non-jewish + american + middle class + perisex
- cancer/canza
- neurodivergent + disabled
- traumagenic/autigenic system host
- atheistic + secular humanist + baby naturalistic pagan
- polymorph + otherwise alterhuman/nonhuman
- age dreamer

identity:
these are sort of grouped together in ways that i see them linked!
- amatopunk, voidpunk, rabiespunk, pluralpunk, and a trender/trenderpunk
- teddy femme + queer
- gender/orientation/pronoun hoarder
- artehelian genderqueer rosboy veldifem trans man
- excemelle generathian antigirl
- transmasculine + transneutral + transxenine + transkenous + transaurethine + adfeminine
- polyeros nonamorous aroallo mspec veldian
- apothiromantic + green stripe aro + aemospec
- posic+

brain:
- autism, adhd, cptsd, npd, ocd, hypersexuality, dpdr, anxiety, depression, several phobias, n24hswd, nightmare disorder, bfrbs, and possibly osdd-1b or p-did (i'm a traumagenic system, unsure if disordered)
- i'm also hyperverbal, a neuronarrator, a polysynesthete, dysgeographic, and experience hyperempathy
- i have rsd, social anxiety and paranoia surrounding social situations, and generally bad emotional regulation, so i stay away from discourse that stresses me out and block anyone who makes me uncomfortable.
body:
- mid-severe scoliosis, chronic pain, fluctuating fatigue, and some kind of hypermobility disorder (not heds)

pronouns and terms:
- he/him/his/himself
- ey/em/eir/eirself
- ve/ven/ver/ves/venself
- it/its/itself
- any other pronouns aside from she or they — feel free to use any neopronoun sets on me!
- 'older' masc or neutral terms (mister, dude, guy, nonbin, man, etc)

- pro-israel/anti-palestine, think pro-palestinian activism is antisemitic, deny the genocide of palestinians, etc.- queer/mogai exclusionist of ANY kind, including those who think that pronoun nonconformity (ex: he/him women), mspec lesbian/veldian/gay, lesboy/veldigirl, and similar 'contradictory' labels are 'harmful'- against endogenic or otherwise non-traumagenic systems, fakeclaim systems, etc.- are or support transx, transid, radqueer, xenosatanist, or any other similar identities (note: transspecies is not a transid term, it's an alterhuman term, so transspecies folks are welcome to follow)- publicly ship/condone shipping incestuous/pedophilic/abusive/etc. ships (proship, profic, etc.)- against researched self-diagnosis- demonize any mental illness/disorder, call certain ones abusive or 'problematic', etc.- infantalize any mental illness/disorder- mock or refuse to tag triggers

- anti-kink, including those against kink at pride- against any form of alterhumanity or nonhumanity- your blog is focused on any denomination of christianity (i have religious trauma)- post/support thinspo, proana/pro-ed content, body-checking, etc.- pro-contact, neutral-contact, 'contact complex', or anti-therapy/recovery/etc. for inherently harmful paraphilias (pedophilia/necrophilia/zoophilia/etc.)- consider all paraphilias inherently harmful, call yourself 'anti-para', are ableist towards those with paraphilic disorders, etc.- post about ddlg or other ageplay kinks (do not send me asks about this, it's highly triggering and i will block you)- think fiction doesn't affect our perception of reality- are shitty towards people who are uncomfortable with media you're interested in (looking at you, anons who keep sending me hazbin hotel requests)- post anything positive or fandom-y about harry potter

nothing from these sources:
- real people (including characters that are intended to accurately/mostly accurately represent real people, such as those from 'hamilton')
- (the above rule does not include characters that are adjacent to, but distinct from, real-life counterparts. for example, youtuber personas like darkiplier, roleplay characters that share a name with their actors, etc.)
- it and other horror media with a focus on clowns
- hetalia
- south park
- harry potter
- the adventure zone (canon art is problematic, only applies if you're asking for icons)
- heartbeat rpg
- boyfriend to death
- hazbin hotel/helluva boss/other vivziepop media
- twilight and its spinoffs
- detroit become human
- k-12
- family guy/american dad/the cleveland show
- game of thrones
- black butler
- yandere simulator
- the big bang theory/young sheldon
- anything by emma essex
- the arcana
- attack on titan
- dsmp (i just do not want to touch the discourse lol)
- stuff by bloofbloof on itch/webtoons
- pico's school
- i won't take most podcast reqs on @mogai-headcanons (unless said podcast has canon character art), but i'll take them on @neopronouns if they aren't icons!
- more obscure media, especially musicals, may not have transparents or shots i can easily make transparent, so i may have to refuse due to that

nothing involving these labels:
- pre-pubescent kids using split romantic/sexual identities (this doesn't include aroace and related terms, since that can be used as a non-sam identity)
- kindergender/clovergender, 'pedosexual', 'consang', anything else involving pedophilia/incest/beastiality/whatever
- sapio/morosexual
- queeragamic
- the sparrow/peacock/raven presentation system (this idea was basically stolen from a nln person trying to make terms for nln folks and is now used for all nonb folks, and since, again, there are other presentation systems, i also don't do this one)
- i take requests for the original meaning of rabiosexual/rabies pride, but i'll change 'rabiosexual' to 'rabiespunk' to avoid anyone thinking i'm a troll
- vixenamoric/todamoric/casiamoric
- factkin (i'm not exactly anti-factkin, it's a complex debate imo, but i don't feel equipped to make content involving it)
- i will change 'achillean' to 'vincian', as i personally use the original meaning of 'vincian', which is 'mlm' rather than 'gay man', so if you use the term 'vincian' without clarifying that you use it the other way, i'll take it to mean 'mlm'
- i'm personally uncomfortable with the term 'f/mboy' due to its connotations, so i'd prefer you to not use the word at all in requests, but if you do, i'll change it to 'rosboy' (there are many other similar terms, so if you prefer one of those just use that in your req) (this excludes ‘f/mboy’ being specifically noted as a reclamatory term in requests)
- i will also generally change older diagnostic terms to their updated counterparts (ex: add to adhd-pi, ddnos to osdd, etc) and will not take requests that use the term 'asperger's syndrome'

what you can send:
- mogai/liom identity headcanons of any character
- relationship headcanons involving some mogai identity (ex: '[character] is opalian and is dating [character] who's a trans man')
- additional headcanons (ex: '[character] is agender and prefers not to bind')
- questions about terms you see on the blog, how to use certain pronouns, etc
- if you'd like to request from a sexual source, i'd prefer you to send the request to @neopornouns, my 18+ blog! it'll be tagged appropriately on either blog, but i like to be organized.
- please direct all other mogai requests to my other blog, @neopronouns!

general rules:
- please don't argue with headcanons (unless they go against canon)
- sending more than 14 characters will require me to combine some images, but i don't mind it!
- i'd prefer no request to have more than about 200 terms for a single icon
- if i deny a request due to lack of pngs, feel free to send me some
- also, if something doesn't have canon art (like a podcast or novel), feel free to send me your own art to use for a req
- no additional headcanons involving kinks (kink-related genders/orientations/pronouns/etc are okay)
- i consider characters whose stories rely on transphobic stereotypes but are considered cis by their source to be canonically trans (for example, transfem/amab transneutral chihiro fujisaki and transmasc/afab transneutral naoto shirogane)

none of these ships:
- incestous or pedophilic ships
- (stepsibling/adoptive sibling ships are included with the above)
- anyone under 12ish dating/in a qpr (listing crushes or future relationships is fine)
- queeragamic relationships
- bakugou x izuku or ochaco (bnha)
- gamzee x jane (hs)
- dirk x girls (hs)
- kanaya <3 or <3< boys (hs)
- tavros x vriska (hs)
- alpha trolls x beta trolls (hs)
- amethyst x jasper or the famethyst (su)
- steven x any gems (su)
- shiro x other voltron members (vld)
- keith x lance (vld)
- rey x kylo ren (sw)
- entrapta x other princesses, catra, or bow (spop)
- jasper x lapis (su)